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Sex Sometimes Sells

The recession drags on, but sex-toy sales are way up as people look for coping mechanisms

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Thursday, June 25, 2009

While businesses across the board have cried poor since the economy nosedived last autumn, there appears to be one industry that has surged — erotic accessories.

A recent report by Information Resources Inc. found that first-quarter sales of personal lubricants increased 32 percent up to $41.2 million, and sales of sexual-enhancement devices jumped a startling 74 percent to $10.1 million for the period ending on April 19.

Products marketed by Church & Dwight (Trojan and Durex) and Johnson & Johnson (K-Y Yours & Mine lubes and K-Y Intense — the first mass-marketed female arousal gel) are now showcased in end-aisle displays at grocery, drug and department stores, including Wal-Mart.

Church & Dwight's own research reveals that sales of sexual enhancement devices (including Trojan Vibrating Touch) are actually a billion dollar business in the U.S.

In seven states, where it's illegal to sell certain erotic items — such as vibrators — online sales by direct sellers have soared. Walgreens's Web site now offers a Sexual Wellness tab that includes romance-themed costumes, games, massage oils and the Emotional Bliss Fem-blossom vibrator.

The lube manufacturer, Wet, reported that sales this year rose by 30 percent and the company has since automated its factories in order to keep up with demand.

"I have definitely seen sales increase since December — tripled, in fact," says Karen Cavagnuolo, owner of the New Haven-based bedroombuzz.com and executive director of Passion Parties, a direct sales company based in Las Vegas that caters to a female clientele. "Team sales for last year was $100,000, and last month we hit that mark already!"

Cavagnuolo currently manages 78 women who host parties at private homes where erotic products and techniques are demonstrated and sold to guests eager to learn and spend cash on vibrators, dildos, edible creams, gels and other sundries.

Nationwide, the company hosts more than 128,000 parties a year, reaching more than 1.2 million women. Small towns and rural locations produce the highest sales, helping to earn Passion Parties $100 million dollars last year, alone.

"The parties are free and account for 95 percent of product sales," says Cavagnuolo. "Our best-selling product is Pure Satisfaction gel, which kicks up the intensity of orgasms."

Cavagnuolo says that women of every age group and ethnicity purchase erotic products and, lately, she has received numerous inquires from men wanting to get involved in the business.

"I have three guys on my team now who do co-ed parties, but generally women are more comfortable with other women," she says.

Maybe that's why the male proprietor of Naughty Nancy's, in Norwalk, has reported that sales at his store have tanked along with the economy.

Juan Jeffrey, manager of VIP in Hartford says that having lots of women on staff helps increase sales. The i-Vibe Rabbit is the hottest selling product at his store over recent months. After the vibrator was endorsed by a character on "Sex and the City," the company's sales exploded.

"Our lingerie department is booming," says Megan Gigola, who runs the stock room at VIP's Orange store. "I can't tell you by how much sales have increased but I can say that we have not been hurt at all by the economy."

D'jun Paulk who works at Love Shack with locations in Bridgeport, Branford, Derby and Norwalk, says his biggest market is the gay community.

"Gay men and women spend more than heterosexuals," says Paulk. "Moist is the top selling product for men along with anal plugs and anal deads. Women buy strap-ons, double-sided dildos, sex swings and pillows that form different shapes. Lesbians make up more than half of our customers. Gay and bisexual women are not afraid to buy these type of products. I'd say sales are up by about 10 percent this year."

Bookends 2, located in Enfield, is the second-oldest porn shop in the country, according to its owner, Jeff Van.

"We have more men come in at night and women during the day," says Van. "Lubes sales are up and the i-Vibe Rabbit is our number-one seller."

Van says sales of all products are up by 10 percent this year and attributes it directly to the economy.

"Instead of going out to a movie, people are renting them," he says. "We do a lot of video rental and sales and I believe that because people aren't taking vacations, it drives them to spend more money on pleasure."

... Play-cations?

 

In Westport, Sandra Mejia quit her day job to open a branch of Passion Parties (passionpartiesbysandra.com) in Martha Stewart's old neighborhood. She says that since the beginning of the year, sales are flourishing.

"My phone has been ringing like crazy," she says. "I've been doing two or three parties a week — which is considered full time. I'd say sales have increased by 70 percent, probably because women don't like going into adult stores and asking a man or a 20-year-old personal questions."

Mejia says that her parties include a lot of sex education. She adds that another marketing tool is that the company's exclusive line of products are sold and mailed in discreet packaging.

"Everyone has a romantic life and if you don't have a partner, we have products to satisfy you alone," she says. "If you're more conservative, we have a line of relaxation products."

Mejia says that since people have lost their jobs, she has had a lot of inquires about joining her business.

"With the economy so bad, people aren't going out to restaurants — they are staying home and having sex," she concludes.

Since the economy has soured, the erotic accessories business has never been sweeter.

 

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Great article Chandra. I invite all the readers to check out what makes Passion Parties so special at http://www.bedroombuzz.com. Lots of great summer deals right now. 25% off to all your readers with code thankyou.
Posted by bedroombuzz.com on 6.23.09 at 15.20
Born and raised in CT, having lived all over the country and now settled in OK, I am currently on Karen's Team! I enjoy working part time hours for full time pay and decided last Nov to build my own Totally Passion Success Team! As a Manager supporting the Mid-West and beyond, I hold FREE Bachelorette, Birthday, Newly Single, College and Coed Parties to help women enhance their lives from the bedroom to the bank! Our SUMMER LOVIN' Catalogs are now out and we can warm your summer in all the right ways. Contact me if I can help you in OK, CO, TX, AR, MO, KS and beyond contact me!
Posted by Debi Askey - Totally Passion in Oklahoma on 6.23.09 at 15.46
Love the article. Always enjoy seeing Passion Parties in the news. You can visit my website as well for 25% off your order with the code thanks
Posted by Britni Sanford on 6.23.09 at 15.56
This is SOOO true--my own sales are quadrupled over this time last year!

If you want more information on how to do what I do, please contact me and I will get that out to you!!
Posted by Bridget Sclama in Oklahoma on 6.23.09 at 15.56
What makes having a Passion Party better than visiting an Adult Novelty Store is that you can see and sample all these products without fear of getting the weird eye from the counter guy or being spotted by a neighbor. Plus they are just SO much fun.... And what Novelty Store gives you free stuff for bringing your friends in to shop with you?
Amanda's Passion Parties, serving New Jersey
Posted by mypassionpage.com on 6.23.09 at 16.00
I wanted to clarify something mentioned in the article. Our consultants show customers tips and tricks on using the products. We DO NOT engage in any use of toys at our parties, Our parties are tasteful and educational. http://www.bedroombuzz.com
Posted by bedroombuzz.com on 6.23.09 at 16.13
I am also on Karen's team and it is a pleasure! Passion Parties shows women how to enhance their intimate relationships and suggest way for women to find their inner sexual diva in the comfort of the hostess's living room. You will become entertained and enlightened in a fun environment. All ordering is confidential Plus, Passion Parties offers women the opportunity of owning their own business. I mean, we actually get paid to party!! What better job could there be? Interested in having a party or becoming a consultant, I serve the MD/DC/VA area. Contact me at 301-848-7530 or access my website at www.mypassionoutlet.com.
Posted by Veronica Faison on 6.23.09 at 16.55
Thank you for writing about me, http://www.PassionPartiesbySandra.com, in this article Chandra!
Although I'm in Fairfield County, I do cover all of CT and NY.

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Posted by Sandra Mejia - Passion Parties by Sandra on 6.23.09 at 17.16
For you CT people, Sandra is the bomb! She is fabulous at what she does and will make you feel so comfortable so call her up! She rocks!

Have a party in the comfort of your home with your best girlfriends and have the time of your life. I promise, you will talk about it for ever!
Posted by Patricia Barboza on 6.23.09 at 17.43
I am a proud Passion Parties Consultant and part of Sandra Mejia Team! If you live in the USA or Canada, come join our Team! Sandra is the best sponsor you could ask for! You will get all the support and training you need from a group of women who care. Our team is the place to be!
Visit our web site to get the best deals!
Posted by Zen Pyatt on 6.23.09 at 19.19
Sales are picking up!! If I can do it, anyone can do it!! I am in the Bridgeport area and will travel beyond. Contact me to so I can show you how easy it is!!
Posted by Jonnie Baker on 6.23.09 at 19.46
One of the nice things about Passion Parties (besides everything thats been mentioned so far) is that we also have the ability to empower women. Our abilty to educate is helping couples all over with their lines of communication. We have so many testimonials from couples on how our consultants have improved their marriages with our advice and tips. With times such as we have now, I can easily see why there is a need for our products and why we are all seeing increases in sales.

Deb from Wisconsin
www.passioinbydeb.com
Posted by Deb from www.passionbydeb.com on 6.23.09 at 19.59
SANDRA IS DA BOMB!!! If you havent seen her in action you absolutely must book a party with her. You wont believe some of the secrets she will share with you!
Posted by Darlene on 6.23.09 at 20.53
I am offering 35% off any order on my site for all you readers! Go to www.thelovethriller.com and enter the code 35off at check out for your discount!!!
Posted by Kim Ginsberg on 6.23.09 at 21.12
So true..other places can sell sex toys..but don't offer a one on one consultation in private, like we do with our ordering process. I just had a customer tell me she got her BenWa balls stuck..she had to go to the E.R! No one told her at the store how to use them. She was quite surprised at the Passion Party she attended when she heard me explain how and why they are used! She said she sure wished she had bought them from me, would have saved her a trip to the ER!
Posted by Robyn on 6.23.09 at 21.45
Great article! Passion Parties is keeping this economy going and keeping couples together! Our team in Kentucky is flourishing and sales are up 400%! Visit www.wantapassionparty.com to experience financial freedom like never before!
Posted by Stephanie on 6.24.09 at 3.29
Passion Parties IS booming and the economy isn't letting us down...not even in middle-of-nowhere Missouri. So keep spreading the passion ladies! Wonderful article, and tasteful as always, as our company prides itself on our professionalism!
Posted by Mary Myers on 6.24.09 at 3.40
Sandra Mejia is a very professional Passion Parties Consultant. I have no doubt that once people contact her to book a party they will have a lot of FUN!. You can also order online at her website or ask her how to become a consultant yourself.
Posted by Donna Bourque on 6.24.09 at 4.28
I am one of the guys on Karen’s team, and I can say the business has been doing great. Our parties are lots of fun and informational and on that note also in the private setting of your own home. Now as a guy on this team, I know that all of my parties are doing great. I will do as many parties as I can book, and most of our parties go for an hour or two sometimes longer if need be. I always give as much as I can to the hostess for having her party, and when the guests at the party see all the free stuff then can get by booking and holding their own party, that’s the best motivator for this business. If you are looking for a great party to have I would say passion party is the best party to have. If you want to contact me, and see about booking your own party, I would be happy to see if I have a date that would work for you. My website is www.passiontoys4girlsandboys.com I can tell you we are booking parties most of the time a month ahead but we will all do our best to work you in for a time that works for you the hostess. Thanks Rick
Posted by Rick in oklahoma on 6.24.09 at 5.29
This Artical is wonderful, Thank you.
Passion Parties has taken great care in setting it's self apart from other Sesual Product Home Party Plans. The detail and quality of their products is always first. From repackageing many items and removing all off language from their catalogs and on-line sales as well. People want these parties and more Independent Consultants are in demand nationwide. Cheers Karen.
Posted by Cindi Q. on 6.24.09 at 5.57
Great article. Thanks for focusing on something good and fun!!! I am on the TotallyPassion team in Oklahoma. I enjoy working and meeting new people, sharing my knowledge and always learning from the hostess and the guess as well. I enjoy booking Bachelorette, Singles, Couples, Birthday, Newly Single, and Summer Fun parties!!!
Posted by Crystal Guthrie on 6.24.09 at 6.23
This was a great article. Sandra is a fabulous consultant and always the professional. I would personally recommend that people visit Sandra's website to book a party or join her team. Her party presentation is excellent. You don't want to miss out on Sandra's party or the opportunity to join her team. www.passionpartiesbysandra.com
Posted by Becky Vance on 6.24.09 at 7.23
WooHoo, Sandra! Great to see You in the news representing Passion Parties! Wish we could have lunch to celebrate! If anyone in Texas wants more information about our products or how to host a party please visit my website @ www.SheetSecretsBySara.YourPassionConsultant.com I love to travel! I've covered as far as far-east Texas & high-north Oklahoma! I've got some great Summer Lovin' Specials goin' that include FREE products!!! Please contact me for more info! Congrats again Sandra! ~S~
Posted by Sara Hines on 6.24.09 at 8.54
Great article representing Passion Parties well!
For more information on hosting a Passion Parties or how to become an Independent Consultant in the Greater Phoenix, AZ area, visit www.delightfulkisses.com
Posted by Susan on 6.24.09 at 9.23
Karen is awesome! Anyone in CT is lucky to do a party with her!
~Hope
http://thepassionshop.com
Posted by Hope on 6.27.09 at 11.17
Great article. If you are looking for someone to host your own Romance Party we have over 200 ladies waiting to help you. You can find Karen there also.
Posted by We Do Those Parties on 6.30.09 at 17.40
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