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Fairfield Public Schools has made a few questionable calls to the Department of Children and Families over sick kids

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Thursday, October 01, 2009
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The LeVasseurs (from left): Sarah, Cathy, Paul and Chris

Cathy and Paul LeVasseur thought Fairfield Public Schools understood: Their son Chris was out sick with Lyme disease and wouldn’t be back to school until he was better.

Though he was a bright kid who sailed his way through the Six to Six Magnet School, Chris’ first year at Tomlinson Middle School had been derailed. The seventh-grader came down with a sore throat and fever in September 2008 and was bedridden with joint and muscle pain by the end of October. He also developed serious cognitive problems, his parents say. He could no longer remember the names of household objects. He pointed at them and then huffed in frustration. Fairfield Public Schools sent a tutor to the LeVasseurs’ home, but she was dismissed after Chris banged his head on the table in anguish during lessons.

Cathy LeVasseur says she excused all of his absences. She exchanged e-mails regularly with Chris’ guidance counselor. She met with a “team,” a cluster of school officials put together to guide the education of a child in need of long-term special ed accommodations.

Everyone was on the same page, she assumed.

Cathy was shocked, she says, when she got a call from school social worker Vanessa Costanzo last April, saying she had reported the LeVasseurs to the Department of Children and Families for the suspected “educational neglect” of Chris.

“It felt like such an about-face from the last time I had talked to [school officials],” Cathy says. “I couldn’t believe this was happening.”

She’s not the only parent in Fairfield who’s had that feeling. This sort of thing happens at least enough to make it to the desk of State Rep. Kim Fawcett (D-Fairfield). Fawcett says four other sets of parents have contacted her about being reported to DCF by officials in Fairfield Public Schools. In each case, the child was sick, the school said he or she was truant, and the parents said they were baffled.

Just eight weeks prior to the call from Costanzo, Cathy LeVasseur went to Tomlinson to attend the first meeting of the “team” — a special education coordinator, social worker, teacher, principal, guidance counselor and Cathy herself. And she remembers the meeting as mostly amiable. There was one point of contention: They wanted Chris to be evaluated by a school-appointed physician and psychologist immediately. Cathy wanted Chris to first finish his current round of testing with a neurologist in Norwalk.

We don’t know that doctor, Cathy recalls Secondary Special Education Coordinator Barbara Giaquinto saying. The school wanted Chris seen by their people, and they wanted Cathy to sign off on it, and she did.

But she revoked that permission the next day, she says. She and her husband decided they wanted to wait until after some other doctors’ appointments. There was an upcoming MRI with the neurologist in Norwalk, and the LeVasseurs were taking Chris to see some of the Lyme specialists members of their support groups had recommended. Chris barely had enough energy to get out of bed some days. Too many interviews, memory tests and doctoral poking and prodding would wear him out.

On Feb. 4, Cathy told the school they were going to wait until his other tests were done before the school’s medical officials could see her son.

On March 26, Costanzo reported the LeVasseurs to DCF, the state’s main child welfare agency, on suspicion of educational neglect. The reason on the report: Chris had been absent for 106 days. The report also noted the LeVasseurs dismissed the tutor and refused to let the school’s people test Chris.

In early April, Costanzo made the call to Cathy LeVasseurs. She called it a “courtesy call,” Cathy remembers, “as if it were some special favor to let me know they had done this.”

“This is something we did not expect and were not prepared for,” says Paul LeVasseur. “On top of everything else we were doing for Chris, we now had to get prepared for the DCF investigation.”

Cathy works as a receptionist at a health spa and Paul works at Bridgeport Hospital, overseeing the ecological efficiency of the hospital’s cleaning, but Cathy has a degree in early childhood education and the two hold theater and stress reduction workshops for teens during the summer. If word got around…

On a form to the authorities, Costanzo had checked a box marked “HABITUALLY TRUANT (Twenty (20) unexcused absences in a school year)” (underlining in the original). The LeVassuers say all of Chris’ absences were excused and the school had notes from his doctors.

And even if the LeVassuers hadn’t followed exact protocol, e-mails between Cathy LeVasseur and Chris’ guidance counselor show the school knew why Chris was out and knew about his parents’ laborious efforts to get him ready to come back. Why would the school think they were neglecting their son?

The DCF investigation was short. In April, an agent came to their home, did interviews with Cathy, Paul and Chris, and sent a letter four weeks later stating the allegations were without substance.

The LeVasseurs went on to a long summer of testing and treatment from their own team of “Lyme-literate doctors.” Chris never saw the school’s examiners.

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Rep. Fawcett intends to talk to Fairfield Public Schools administrators about their DCF reportage. “I think it may not be clear to them when they are supposed to call DCF,” she says. “I think we need better guidelines.”

Another parent, whom we’ll call Ralph, had two children with Lyme in the district. The school called DCF on Ralph and his wife over both kids. Ralph does not want us to use his name because he still has family involved with Fairfield Public Schools.

Ralph’s eldest became sick in middle school. When planning for high school, meetings became more and more explosive until he and his wife couldn’t meet with their “team” without an armful of school officials, a state-appointed mediator and Ralph’s own attorney in the room, he says.

A few hours after one of these meetings, a pair of DCF agents knocked on Ralph’s door. School administrators “were smiling at us while we were there and then called DCF as soon as we left,” Ralph says. The DCF agents separated the family. They asked the children if their parents ever fought and asked Ralph and his wife if they ever abused drugs or alcohol. Were there any barbiturates in the house right now?

The investigation was more intense than the one the LeVasseurs had to stomach, but the end result was the same: The parents were cleared of any wrongdoing by DCF. Ralph says an agent later told him the school “had some concerns” over the medical treatment his child was receiving.

When their second child became sick, Ralph and his wife simply pulled the kid out of the school district. The school called DCF on them again, but this time Ralph deflected them with a lawyer before any investigation took place.

It’s a tactic, says attorney Deborah Stevenson, executive director of the National Home Education Legal Defense. “There are a lot of cases with diseases where the family and the school district disagree and the school tries to rein in the parent by calling DCF … DCF is essentially used as extra muscle by the school.”

The reasons vary, says Stevenson, but in most cases, “the school thinks they have an obligation to make the child go to school.” A need to control the child is built into the culture of the school.

In other cases, the school may legitimately worry about child’s medical treatment. “It can be a battle between the parent and the school over what constitutes good medicine,” says Stevenson.

Lyme, a disease with a nearly endless multitude of symptoms, presents a particular problem. There are no universally agreed-upon guidelines for how it’s treated. The controversy could swallow up several paragraphs, but to sum it up briefly: The Infectious Disease Society of America contents there is no such thing as chronic Lyme. Four weeks of antibiotics is all the treatment anyone should need, by IDSA guidelines. In that doesn’t do the trick, you must be suffering from something else. The insurance industry likes this line of thinking because it lets them off the hook for more extensive treatment. A growing number of patients, parents and “Lyme-literate” doctors say that Lyme is a chronic and distinct disease and those who say it isn’t are dangerously suppressing information. The recently-passed Connecticut House Bill 6200 extends protection from malpractice suits for doctors treating long-term Lyme, but the battle over a consensus about Lyme and how to treat it continues.

It makes things confusing, at the very least, to school districts.

“If the IDSA has a bias against Lyme,” says Maggie Shaw, a registered nurse and longtime Lyme activist, “then that will be reflected in our government agencies.”

*

When asked to discuss this story, Fairfield Public Schools officials didn’t want to. “We are not having this discussion,” Superintendent Ann Clark said flatly. Clark, Tomlinson Principal Connee Dawson and Director of Special Education Andrea Leonardi would not say a single word about the LeVasseurs or their claims. They cited confidentiality.

Clark refused to discuss the district’s standard about when to report a child to DCF. “Anything I say could imply something about [the LeVasseur] case,” she said.

She did e-mail us a few pages from the Board of Education’s Policy Guide. The section doesn’t say how many days of absence constitute “educational neglect” or even include the phrase “educational neglect.”

Out of all the school officials we contacted, Leonardi talked for the longest. She noted all school officials are “mandated reporters,” required by state law to report any suspicion of abuse or neglect to DCF.

“Any number of things” could warrant a call, Leonardi says. She repeatedly said it differs with “each individual.”

There’s no limit to the number of things that could cause suspicion and there is no suspicion so small it should be brushed aside — and, Leonardi says, it should be that way for the benefit of the kids.

“It’s not easy for us,” Leonardi says. “It’s no small matter when you are talking about the welfare of a child. But as a parent, I would want the school not to overlook any possible case of abuse or neglect.”

She adds it’s DCF’s responsibility, not the school’s, to investigate a school official’s suspicion. They shouldn’t sit around and worry about how creditable their claim is; that’s DCF’s job.

Also, school officials don’t have to confer with each other. Vanessa Costanzo, the social worker who reported the LeVasseurs, may have made the decision to call without any order from her superiors. Constanzo did not return our calls or e-mails.

DCF Spokesperson Gary Kleeblatt emphasizes that any parent reported to the agency is treated with kid gloves. It’s very rare a parent would be charged with a crime or be separated from the child. (Calls that dire usually go to the local police.) In a vast majority of the 24,000 reports CDF received in the last year, “reconciliation between the parent and child is the goal,” Kleeblatt says.

For parents who feel that they’ve been wronged by this process, there is little recourse. Technically, false reporting to DCF is a crime, but John C. Smriga, State’s Attorney for the judicial district covering Fairfield, says those cases are rarely prosecuted.

“You would have to prove that someone reported with malicious intent,” says Smriga. “It’s not a crime if the reporter made a mistake.”

But still, how does a parent who has done no wrong trust a system that alleged they neglecting their child?

*

Chris LeVasseur has not made it back to Tomlinson this year. Cathy religiously calls the school every morning to say his absence has been excused.

He understands what happened between his parents and his school. “They didn’t know how bad I was feeling,” Chris says. “They just wanted to get me back to school.”

Chris sits in the Starbucks on Post Road, a hangout spot close enough to his house for regular visits. He doesn’t seem frail, just very tired. He sits more stilly and tranquilly than a 12-year-old should. He doesn’t ever seem to fidget.

Cathy considered homeschooling him (she does have that degree in early childhood education), but she and Paul decided it was important for him to be with other kids. They want him to go back to Tomlinson when he’s ready.

“We’ll probably have to get a lawyer,” says Paul LeVasseur. “You shouldn’t have to hire a lawyer to just to get your child the education he’s entitled to.”

Chris’ vocabulary has come back to him. He’s able to come up with similes. He says he feels like “a ship lost in the fog.” He doesn’t feel alone; he says he’s surrounded by other ships — his friends, his parents, his siblings — but it’s just he who can’t pierce through the fog. Fairfield Public Schools was just a very big ship, one that perhaps didn’t think about the size of its wake.

 [Note: The print version of this story included a typo in the subheadline.]

 

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Thank you, Mr. Keppler, for this excellent article.

Sadly, Fairfield is not the only district in CT in which parents of children with Lyme disease have been unjustly reported to DCF for child neglect, simply for following the medical orders of the child's treating physician, when they are told that the child is too ill to attend school. Sadly, similar reports have been made to child protection agencies around the country.

I note that DCF spokesperson Gary Kleeblatt is quoted as saying "reconciliation between the parent and the child is the goal." I don't understand how this can be a goal since the parents and child are working as a team, with the physician, to get the child well. In my psychotherapy practice, I work with families of very ill Lyme children, and witness every day how ill a child can be without looking sick, how it impacts their ability to function in school. There are no unreconciled differences between the child and parent in these cases.

The schools need to take responsibility to be educated regarding this devastating illness, so prevelant in CT. I see a big difference in districts where I have provided in-service training for school staff. When they learn about the illness, and understand what the child and parents are going through, they become compassionate partners with the parents in providing an education for these children, and not adversaries. The advocates in CT stand ready to advise districts that want to provide that training for their teaching staff, and my hope is that the schools will contact them to make use of the resources available.

Sandy Berenbaum, LCSW, BCD
Family Connections Center for Counseling
Southbury, CT
Posted by Sandy Berenbaum, LCSW, BCD on 10.1.09 at 9.53
Is it only Lyme disease that schools question, or do they routinely question all diseases that a student might have? If they do not question all diseases and want to determine the medical treatment for just one, maybe someone should consider that CT needs another law for the school systems, in addition to the one just passed.

Since when did we give up all our rights to send children to public schools?

One of these days a school district is going to be sued for these practices. And waste a lot of taxpayer money defending such questionable policies. And lose, one hopes.

It is bad enough for a child to have a chronic disease, have trouble getting treatment for it, but to have a school district add to this grief by persecuting parents is intolerable.
Posted by lou on 10.1.09 at 10.17
YOUR EDITOR MUST HAVE GONE TO SCHOOL AS MANY DAYS AS THE KID IN THE ARTICLE! 180-106=74. STARBUCKS CERTAINLY MUST PROVIDE A GREAT EDUCATIONAL SETTING
Posted by RAY AGOSTINO on 10.1.09 at 11.51
As someone whose daughter missed all of high school because of Lyme disease, I can certainly relate to what the LeVasseurs are going through. While we never had our school district report us to DCF, school officials did not behave in a very responsible or ethical manner. A child suffering with chronic Lyme disease is facing health challenges beyond what most people face in an entire lifetime. The mental and physical disability from Lyme is often severe. These kids are losing out on so much while they battle a disease that has ravaged their mind and body. It is such an injustice and an unnecessary added strain on both the child and the family to have school officials question the whole diagnosis and try to force a debilitated child into school. The problem is that school officials are buying into a lot of myth and misinformation that is being disseminated by the medical establishment due to an active disinformation campaign coming from the Infectious Disease Society of America. Very sick and disabled children are being terribly mistreated by their school districts because of this ignorance.

I used to be Chairman of a group called the Committee for Education Reform for Children with Lyme Disease (CERCLD). As such, I was in touch with families throughout the state, whose children had Lyme and were in and out of school because of their illness. The Fairfield School District had a reputation as one of the worst offenders but was by no means the only school district to turn their back on these disabled students and treat them as criminals. In fact, I witnessed this kind of behavior in school districts across the state. It is about time that these school districts get properly educated regarding the true facts about Lyme disease and understand that these students are dealing with a highly debilitating illness. These kids desperately want to be in school but have the misfortune of being too sick and disabled to be there. The ones who should be investigated are these school officials not the families.

By the way, my daughter persevered through her illness and the school district's best efforts to demean and destroy her. Despite missing high school and losing the ability to read for several years because of Lyme, she got a GED, went off to college and graduated Summa Cum Laude.
Posted by David Hunter on 10.1.09 at 11.52
Kudos to the parents for defending their son against school harassment. They both hold down jobs, are dealing with an ill child, then on top of that, must ward off threats by suspicious school personnel. This is another area where IDSA's guidelines influence perceptions of Lyme illness by truancy officials. If there's "no chronic Lyme" then families whose children have long-term Lyme enter a no-man's land.
Frightening!
Posted by Camille on 10.2.09 at 9.54
Homeschooling is a very good option for your situation. There are many oportunities to socialize while homeschooling: sports, art & music classes, homeschool support groups, field trips, theater, Boy Scouts, 4H, church, etc...

Socialization is one of the first things people ask me about when they find out we homeschool. Our socialization opportunities are positive experiences. My two oldest went to public school for a few years. The two youngest have always been home. All of them are very capable of interacting with all age levels well. I have delt with kids that are not as respectful. May not be a connection. But, they weren't homeschooled. The kids we know from our support group are respectful, loving and compasionate with all age groups.

Two of my boys 11 and 13 are recovering from Lyme. So am I and my husband. We are all doing very well. When the boys get tired or are having an off day, we can take a small break, take a supplement and re -group a lot easier here than they could at school.
I'm sure you will make the decision that best fits your family. I would like to encourage you to try homeschooling, even if for one year. Better than missing all the assignents from school and trying to play catch up. Best wishes and hopes for healing. Lisa
Posted by LM on 10.2.09 at 10.27
Well, parts of this story sound familiar. My son had Lyme and Bartonelliosis, suffered all of the symptoms this poor child had, was ill for two years before we could get a diagnosis, and missed most of his senior year of public school. What was different was the attitude of the school. For the most part, we were treated with great compassion. (Of course, it helped that faculty and staff members at my son's high school had already suffered greatly from this disabling disease. It also helped that he was a gifted honors student and had never before missed a day of school.)

For quite a while, I called in daily absence reports. Finally, I informed the school that I would call on those days when he would be PRESENT, those being far fewer. For some time, we received computer generated notices of loss of credit due to absence until we asked that those not be mailed. The threats were just one more unnecessary stress and the school knew that my son was outperforming most of his classmates in some of those classes even though he was absent more than anyone else.

My son graduated on time only because he needed only 1.5 credits his senior year and because of modifications made to accommodate his serious cognitive disabilities. He deferred enrollment at UConn for a year to continue treatment and entered this fall with a full tuition scholarship and place in the Honors Program. We still aren't certain how long he will stay since he 's relapsed every fall for the past 4 years.

Students with Lyme (or any chronic illness) and their families live with incredible amounts of stress. Any organization that adds to that stress is one which is putting the family at risk. THEY should be investigated for child endangerment.
Posted by jlm on 10.2.09 at 11.25
Sadly there are many other families like this one and we must ALL contact our state legislators and ask that they support any Lyme legislation that comes their way. The lyme community is fighting to get Chronic Lyme identified as a "real" disease and Statewide MA is fighting for doctors rights to treat lyme. Our children should not pay the price for our governments ignorance. Together we can make a difference. We, the lyme community, have numbers on our side. 200,000 per year now effected. Show your support by hanging lime/lyme green ribbons for awareness of Lyme disease. "Ribbons Across America" is making us visible at a time we need to be seen and heard for legislation to pass.
My prayers to this family and thanks to this paper for getting their story out.
blessings,
Trish
Sturbridge MA
S.L.A.M@msn.com
Posted by Trish on 10.3.09 at 6.30
This is disgraceful! Persecution of families who only want the best for their sick family member...and persecution of the doctors who try to treat them!

The scientific evidence for Chronic Lyme disease and the PERSISTENCE of the COMPLEX Borrelia Spirochete is DETAILED and VAST, unlike that of the IDSA and their devoted followers viewpoint, that this bacteria is "hard to catch and easy to cure".

The IDSA continues to cite the following study to support its view that "long-term antibiotics are not beneficial in treating Lyme disease", the very study performed by Klempner ("Two controlled trials of antibiotic treatment in patients with persistent symptoms and a history of Lyme disease. New England Journal of Medicine, June 12, 2001") which has been trashed by an independent research group (amongst others) as being flawed and "bad science".
Various organisations are often cited to substantiate the IDSA guidelines, namely the CDC, ALDF and EUCALB - when those very organisations actually hold no independent viewpoint at all but merely voice and duplicate that of the IDSA Lyme disease panel. Different organisations are being cited to give the appearance of wider and more authoritative backing from different, independent sources when the membership of these organisations actually contains the very same people amongst their number and, therefore, disqualify them as an independent source.

There is no corroborating evidence from varying authoritative points of reference, then, to support this view promulgated by IDSA; there is, in fact, only one point of reference – the guidelines as set out by the IDSA Lyme disease panel, which is currently under investigation for GROSS conflicts of interest!
Posted by Sick of being Sick on 10.4.09 at 7.31
Yet another reason why my kid will NEVER see the inside of a government school.
Posted by cracker in exile on 10.6.09 at 2.54
Health care is looking for a cheaper way of dealing with Lyme disease. Are you sure that the illness is Lyme disease? Maybe some more tests is called for. There is a City lawyer in New Haven with the same last name that claims to be suffering from the same effects. I'd spray and /or remove all bushes from around your abode , nests perhaps
Posted by jhc on 10.9.09 at 1.28
Perhaps it's time for the town of Fairfield to finally recognize this disease for what it is ......a problem. It's a problem for the people because it's so complicated and hard to deal with medically and it's a problem for educators because they are trying to force a child into attending a system that doesn't want to help the child, because of the rigid model that they follow and economic costs etc.. Some kids are able to cope better, some aren't. Some kids are mildly sick, others are wiped out and can't function. Yet the school system in Fairfield has a one size fits all mentality towards many children who become chronically sick, a one size fits all mentality that doesn't serve the public well at all. It only serves to bloat their budgets and fortify their rigid budgetary contraints on spending for this 'problem'.Fairfield should be ashamed of itself. The governing body in Fairfield should restructure the Board of Education so that they can be held more accountable , legally, to the public for the repeated 'crimes' ( and that's what they really are !!!!) that they have commited against the very public they are charged with serving. Perhaps it's time that a survey be held in Fairfield that would ask the parents of these children how well the Special Eudcation has served them. Accountability is the problem here or lack there of. The head of Special Education ,Miss Leonardi, her subordinates and the Superintendent all act with impunity and total disregard for these families. And the First Selectman, Ken Flatto remains silent. Why? Other towns in this state treat their citizenry with much more compassion. There is a cult of personality in Fairfield that has to be ended , for the sake of the children. 'Everything for the children' is what we are told by this department. But with these caases and others their actions don't past the test for their claim very well.Why not also consider the parents and the entire family who have been harassed and falsely maligned by these ladies. Where is the campassion that Andrea Leonardi, Ann Clark and others in that department make claim but seem to lack in the end, when the chips are down for these people. 'Kick em when their down' . New 'mantra' for the town of Fairfield.
Posted by jack b. nimble on 10.13.09 at 7.13
I'm writing another entry here. With the unnanimous legislation that was recently passed by the Connecticut State Legislators, protecting doctors who treat Lyme Disease outside the 'guidelines' from the IDSA group, why not pass legislation , in the State of Connecticut protecting the parents and children from persecution at the hands of thugs like Ms. Leonardi and Ms. Clark? If we can protect the doctors , why not the kids? Seems like there is another page in the 'protect' the citiznery from abuse book that needs to be written. How about it , Representative Fawcett and Senator McKinney. Shouldn't there be protection from persecution by toen officlas like Ms. Leonardi and Ms. Calrk protection from their abuse , protection for the children and families who suffer from having to deal with this growing probem . Maybe the threat of jail terms and hefty fines for some of these town officials in Fairfield for what has been done to these poor people. Where is the protection for the people? Why aren't they held accountable for their behavior?
Posted by Jack B. Nimble on 10.21.09 at 3.23
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